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As a general rule, dating costs money. There are two costs associated with dating. There is the cost of meeting people (ie. to join the dating site) and there is the cost associated of getting to know people (ie. the dinner or movie ticket). This often puts people off dating. They just cannot afford it. As such, I have written this article to help you meet and date people, without spending any money at all.

You don’t actually have to spend a cent meeting people. It really is very easy. All you need to do is lose your nerves and become chatty. Talk to everyone no matter where you are. Try and have a conversation with every single stranger who drifts past. If you do this you will pretty quickly become an expert at ice breaking and conversing.

You can start this today. When you finish this article, go for a small walk, greet and converse with someone you walk past. The more you do this, the better a conversationalist you will become. You’ll also learn how to break the ice with all manner of people, strike a conversation and build rapport. These skills will come in handy when that attractive person walks by the next time. Because at that point, you’ll have the skills, so you will meet, converse and organise a date with them.

Meeting people in this way is totally free. The following situations are a few examples of the types of opportunities we are talking about: On the bus or train; as you walk your dog; in the supermarket; with the person having a coffee at the next table in a cafe; when you are in a queue for anything.

So you have now spent some time meeting people. You grew comfortable in yourself with this, happened upon someone you were attracted to and met them, chatted with them and organised a follow up date with them. What do you do now and how do you do it without spending all your money? The answer here is pretty simple again. You use your imagination and create a unique experience for your dating partner, which is also a free experience for you.

So stop, think and be imaginative. It is sure to impress. Here are some ideas to get you thinking: If you are an expert at something (Ie. dancing, surfing, cooking) give your date a free lesson or experience. If you are not an expert, suggest you learn something together. (cooking is great in this regard) Hit your local council up for their local or community events. Go to the beach and have a sand castle building competition (try to lose this one )

So you see, you can meet and date people without spending your money. It only takes a bit of courage, practise and imagination. Good luck, I wish you all the success that you deserve.

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