Top 10 Flirting Tips Part Two
Flirting Tip 6: Keep Eye Contact: Obviously keeping your eyes on the other person shows them that you’re interested and a gives a sense of intimacy. Don’t stare, but at some point during the conversation, especially if they laugh or smile, keep eye contact a second longer to show them how much you’re into them. It’s not only intimate but it makes most people’s heart flutter.
Essential 7: Light Friendly Touching. Do it once to judge their reaction and really only do it if you feel that everything is going well. This can be easily done later on while walking to your table by gently placing your hand just over the middle or small of their back. See how they react and if the tense or pull away, stop touching and give them some room. Typically it is well received but you should only do it once or twice during your first flirt.
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Checking Him/Her Out: Though this can be done at any stage but it’s best done a little later on so as to remind the person that you’re flirting with how much you are into them. Simply take a second and check them out, you can even have a nice little mischievous smile on your face. Be careful not to overdo it. Twice is more than enough, once at the start and towards the end.
Flirting Tip 9: Leaving: Sometimes leaving will make the person give you their number, ask you to stay or they may just leave with you. If neither one happens it still gives you a chance to thank them for the night or to compliment them on how nice it was to meet them. At this point you can be bold and offer them your number or ask them on a date later on. If you two need more time before taking it to the next level and the person obviously likes you, offer to take them for coffee and leave the place that you’re at. This way you have time alone and things can progress from there.
Essential 10: Know when to leave. Flirting is like the appetizer of a great meal. If you spend too much time on it, the rest of the meal gets cold. If you leave at the pinnacle of the flirt then your target will want more. So by leaving while it’s still fun you’ve done two things: given them a night that they will remember and open the door for better times ahead.