You want always want to do your best. The best way to make a move on a girl is one that you feel comfortable doing. Why is this? You need to be comfortable asking because if you’re uncomfortable asking your pain will radiate and she will feel uncomfortable accepting. It’s simple psychology at work here so you want to make sure you come across as comfortable and confident when you do make your move.

Once you’ve found the girl of your dreams it may take a while to work up the courage to make that vital first move. Don’t delay too long. Not that I want to add any pressure but if she’s really all that great chances are she’s not going to be sitting around too long before someone swoops in and sweeps her off her feet. That someone may as well be you.

Here are a few approaches you can choose from when looking for the best-best way to make a move on a girl.

Sweep her off her Feet

This can be literal or figurative but it’s best to know her on some level before you scoop her up into your arms or you could be getting more than you bargained for. If you’re going for the figurative method of sweeping her off her feet you’ll probably get a warmer reception. This can be viewed by many as romantic overkill but if you’ve found a girl that’s a sucker for romance she’ll be a goner. Start with flowers and be as open and sincere with her as possible. She’ll be in love with you before she knows what hit her.

Know What She Likes and What She Doesn’t

This applies by knowing what she likes and what she doesn’t. You should know her favorite – movies, color, food, hobbies, pastimes, etc. By knowing these, she can be more comfortable to share with you the things she likes to do. It will make her feel that things go well and more interesting when she has somebody to help, suggest, and be with.

Be Unique but Effective with your Moves

If you really want to get her attention when making your move make sure your delivery is flawless and unexpected. Don’t go with the usual “will you go out with me” pitch. Make it unique and worth a second glance. If she likes gourmet coffee; how about ordering a delivery for her with a note inviting her to go have coffee with you sometime? Be creative and unique but make it fun.

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