SingleNights

OK, you screwed up. You did something dumb or thoughtless or unforgiveable… and now you want your ex girlfriend back.

So, how are you gonna do that? How will you get her back where she belong–in your arms?

Well, here are three things that will help.

Buy Her Roses

Yeah, I know. That sounds like something you’d read in a 1950′s manners book. Lots of guys believe that modern women aren’t impressed by sentimental stuff like flowers. And all those men are wrong. DEAD WRONG!

Most women ADORE flowers. And they really love it when their special men take the effort and time to give their favorite flowers. Something that means a lot to her.

Trust me on this. If you really, really want to get your ex girlfriend back… buy her flowers.

You’ve gotta do more than that, but showing you care is a fantastic first step.

Talk To Her, Honestly

Let her talk.

Don’t interrupt. Don’t jump the gun and offer solutions before you’ve heard the problem. Don’t pretend to listen while you watch the game. Listen… like she’s the most wonderful, fascinating, desirable woman on earth.

And if you want to get your ex girlfriend back… she IS the most important person for you.

And after you’ve listened to her… she’ll listen to you. You’ve made her feel special and important and loved… so she’ll return the favor.

Then you’ll both be able to explain–openly, with no anger–the real reasons why you broke up.

And–in all that open discussion–you might think of ways to get around your problems. That’s a fantastic second step!

Appreciate Her

This is the critical step in getting your ex girlfriend to come back.

She’ll come back ONLY if you satisfy more of her needs than anyone else. Add more and greater value to her life than anybody else does… and she’ll come back to you. If you don’t… she won’t.

What does she really want? Aretha Franklin knows. She wants RESPECT.

And to feel appreciated. Over the years, she’s done a ton of things–big and small–for you. How frequently did you say “thanks”. How frequently did you tell her how much you appreciated all the things she did for you? How frequently did you tell her just how much she meant to you?

For most guys, the answers are “rarely”, “almost never”, and “never”.

That’s the real reason she left. You probably think she left for some other reason… but I’m gonna bet that she really left because of that lack of appreciation… that lack of RESPECT.

Fix that, and all the other problems will fade away like fog in sunshine.

Show her (don’t just talk–do something) how much you really appreciate her… how much your really respect her… and how much she really means to you… and you’ll get your ex girlfriend back so fast you’ll get whiplash.

And more important… you’ll be the sort of tender, caring man who deserves to have such a wonderful woman back in his arms.