Enjoying Your Wedding Day
Mr perfect romantically proposes, you say yes! You gleefully tell family and friends, you proudly set the date, life is perfection… and then comes the wedding planning, the juggling of your money and time, having to plough through endless to do lists, rising above interfering friends and family and resisting the will to just ‘give up’ when your caterer casually cancels two weeks before the date.
Miraculously you kept on track, you kept your calm and your mind -the day is set to be a success! But wait, you’re worried that surely something will go wrong, something will indeed be misplaced, broken, forgotten – disaster! Not to worry, we have a few answers to the most common anxieties a bride will face.
Lets be honest, the only problem that cant be fixed and would make the whole day fall to pieces is the ‘no- show’ of one of the leading roles, your self or your partner!
Your beloved, he will show! – Of course he will, relax, he did ask you after all, and he hasn’t bolted during the chaotic planning of the day when maybe once or twice bridezilla threw a tantrum or two. He’s in for the ride and cannot wait to make you his other half
*It’s definitely recommend that you make it clear to the ‘best mate’ to not whisk the stags off too ‘pre-wedding’ at least a week before is safe, a hung-over groom, a groom in a jail cell or a groom in another country would not be wedding bliss!
Your bridesmaids – your best friends, and perhaps the cousin you’ve not seen since you were 5? They are your rocks, they are also your squat team, use them, keep them focused (and never more drunk than yourself), they can deal with any stresses on your behalf leaving you free to enjoy and experience your day.
* Give your most trusted bridesmaid an emergency kit to keep in their bag, a treasure trove of bits and pieces to combat any problems that arise; nail varnish to double combat chipped nails and ladders in stockings! Hairspray to keep your locks looking no less than model perfection, a little sewing kit to tackle any rips or tears, wipes to remove any stains, makeup for touch ups and perfume to keep you smelling fresh.
Good company – Surround yourself with it, enjoy the ride, benefit all of the details that you put into place during your planning. Laugh, catch up with relatives, enjoy being a newly wed, laugh at the speeches, enjoy the food, drink your champagne, dance at your disco and enjoy the simple fact that all of your hard work has paid off, each and every one of your guests have come to celebrate the union of you and your new husband.
The after thoughts-
The day after can be a strange feeling – it’s all over, no more planning – what on earth will you do with your time? well actually its not over yet, first your honeymoon, then your present opening and thank-you cards, your name changing forms, wedding albums…
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