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When it comes to dating women, you need to keep numerous things in mind in order to ensure that the experience is one that you will cherish for a lifetime.

If you do not have enough dating experience or havent been around pretty girls often, chances you are handling girls incorrectly.

Here is a list of ten things that you should be careful not to do when you date women.

Do not do the following at all costs when you go on your first date or any subsequent date for that matter:

1. Have a relaxed date. Dont try too hard to impress your date. Do not try to impress her by driving her around in fancy cars or taking her to expensive places. She will think you are trying to win her approval. It will make you appear insecure and lacking confidence. Instead do something fun. Go for a horseback riding or race go carts. I bet not too many men have taken her on a date like this. This will make you stand out and will give you plenty to do on your date.

2. Do not ever take a gift for your date. It makes you look needy and weak from the get go. Impress a woman with your personality and charm. Most quality women will either be offended of feel turned off with such behavior. Invest some energy into planning a memorable date. Take her to some fun activity that will excite her. Now that is a gift she will appreciate and remember you for.

3. When I was trying to get better at dating women someone told me to take a gift for my date. I was told that women love when you buy them a nice gift for it makes them feel special. Yes it definitely makes them feel special and powerful but it makes you look needy, insecure and unconfident. Do not ever take a gift on your first date nor take her shopping for that matter. The only reason a woman should be with you is because she likes you for your personality, charm and who you are. Most quality women will be put off by such behavior. Give her a good time and that will be a gift she will always remember and hold dearly.

4. Chivalry is still in fashion! Women love chivalrous men! Small gestures like opening and holding the door or pulling the chair are good. However you have to be congruent with the environment. Pulling the chair at a McDonalds will be a little too much and out of place.

5. You need to get sexual with your date else you run the risk of becoming her friend. There is a certain way and time to get sexual. Spend some time to learn that to improve your odds of succeeding with women. For example run the kiss test (playing with her hair, brushing her arms and squeezing her hand gently) before you go for the first kiss. Do not wait for the night to be over as it is too predictable and boring.

I will list 5 more mistakes in part two of this article.